​For we are what he has made us, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand to be our way of life.
~Ephesians 2:10
​(NIV)

Take a deep breath, and repeat after me. Okay?
In and out:

‘I am beautiful – inside and out. I am glorious at my core. I have been created and created well. I can love me and love all.’

Did it work? I think one of the hardest things we can do is inward reflection of ourselves.
Unfortunately, these past five months have left plenty of room for introspection because, well, most of us non-essential workers been given the time to do so. Some parts of the Lockdown have indeed been beautiful, such as the clearing of air pollution and water being some of them. Other parts have been nightmarish, as with the climbing death rate and historic job loss in the United States alone. It is here that we Lutherans can embrace the cosmic nature of paradox, light and dark, good and evil, saint and sinner. In the time that we’ve been away from our beloved building, our Church has found new and innovative ways to worship, fellowship, and live in this, God’s Kingdom. In that time, I have been reflecting upon my Ordination and Installation promises to the Church, particularly this affirmation: “Do you believe that your call to this Congregation is a part of God’s call in your life? I do, and I ask God to help me.”
July marks the beginning of Phase 3 here in Virginia. COVID-19 is still at large, and there is neither a vaccination nor cure. God’s love endures forever. All three of these statements is true, so how are we, the Church, called to respond?
If there is anything that I as a Novice Pastor have taken away from these five months of Lockdown and separation, it is the fact that God’s Mission finds a way. I am especially proud of our Worship Leaders, who have risen to the occasion via Virtual Worship. It had been amazing to reflect upon the genesis of our attempts from March 15th service to Pentecost. We, the Council and Taskforce, have even discerned the possibility of Live Streaming our Worship Services. Our shared Worship with St. Mark’s in Yorktown will serve as a litmus test to determine if this should be our next step. There are other possibilities that we as a community can explore, including but not limited to, returning to our building. For example, we can worship on our lawn, or at the beach in open air, as advisories have stated is a much safer practice than sitting in a Sanctuary for a hour. I am curious to know what you all are thinking and willing to try in these next couple of months. Just remember that we are all called to care for ourselves and each other, and God is always making us new.

​‘I am beautiful – inside and out. I am glorious at my core. I have been created and created well. I can love me and love all.’

See, I have made all things new; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.
~Isaiah 43:19
~Mantra from Sacred Space COVID-19
‘Isolation’ Retreat by Brendan McManus SJ and Jim Deeds

In God’s Abiding Love,
Pastor Jeniffer Tillman, M.D.

“See, I am about to do a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the wasteland. - Isaiah 43:19

Christ is risen! He is risen indeed! Alleluia! May has finally arrived, and Jesus Christ has left the tomb. However, many of us are still confined to our houses for fear of COVID-19. It doesn’t feel like Easter when the weather is still fluctuating between rain and sunshine, public spaces are empty, and the simple task of grocery shopping feels like an Olympic level sport in keeping up with the “6-Feet Apart” Rule. It doesn’t help that future plans have been severely altered if not cancelled all together. No, the Year 2020 was supposed to provide a clarity of vision, not all of this grey obscurity.

Regardless of these uncertainties that have inconvenienced us, there is hope bursting forth in this new decade. We are all discovering new and innovative ways to stay connected with our families via Skype, Zoom, and other platforms of Video Chat. Many of us are reconnecting with old ways of staying grounded, such as reading books, gardening, and letter writing. We’re all probably walking more and trying out new and time-faithful recipes. I’m not at all surprised that there are those among us that have discovered talents that we would have never unlocked had it not been for this pandemic. I can personally attest that the Church has been propelled into the 21st century and forever changed because of COVID-19. Since we are still getting to know each other, I think this is a wonderful opportunity to start a Virtual Time Capsule. I encourage each of you to make a home video of yourselves and your loved ones that archives what you’ve been doing in the wake of Social Distancing. The pandemic will end, and I think that it would be cathartic to talk about what we’ve all been through. Perhaps, we’ll make a Movie Night of watching ourselves on the Silver Screen a year or so from now. I’ll be making a video talking about this and posting it on our website. God always finds a way, so God’s Church will be just fine. See, something new has been made, and we are always being made new.

In God’s Abiding Love,
Pastor Jeniffer Tillman, MD

“See, if anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away; see, everything has become new!” ~2 Corinthians 5: 17

So, here’s an honest pastor moment, Lent was not my favorite season growing up. My parents, who dictated my faith formation, always had me and my siblings abstain from luxuries like candy, soda, and television. I’m sure if I grew up a child of the 2010’s, my tablet would be put away for this 40-day sentence of Christ centered love. In truth, I didn’t feel any closer to Jesus during Lent than I did any other liturgical season, so I saw Lent as something to be endured until Easter relinquished me from the bonds of my first world problems. You’re probably thinking that as I embraced adulthood and my call to the Office of Ordination, God Almighty bestowed upon me an epiphany that transformed the errors of my youthful heterodoxy. Alas, such epiphany never came as
I resent fasting now more than ever now that I am older. The stakes of my problems and
appreciations have increased with my age. I’ve come to realize that if fasting wasn’t bringing me closer to God, then it was useless, and I shouldn’t conform to it simply because my religion tells me it’s the proper thing to do. Instead, the fast I choose is taking on consideration for others by actually listening to what they need, even if I cannot provide what I want to give them, or worse, feel they should need. I think that was the point of the Meet the Pastor sessions I held over the past few months. I wanted to meet people on 1-on-1 basis in a controlled environment, and what many of you need is flexibility. So, instead of taking the easy route of abstaining from vices of subjugation, such as gummy bears and too many hours on YouTube, the fast I choose is communal empathy. I do want to get to know you, my dear Church, only this time, I promise to do so on your terms. Mistakes will be made and misunderstanding will ensue, but all will be well so long as Christ is at the center. Perhaps, this season, you’ll choose to give something toxic up, like alcohol and Facebook message boards. Perhaps you’ll take something positive on, like volunteer work or walking recreationally with a friend. Whatever you choose, I pray that it brings you closer to Jesus. He’s a pretty great guy who wants you to do well. I sincerely thank everyone who took the time to participate in the Meet the Pastor sessions. I have enjoyed getting to know you using this particular forum, but I think it’s run its course. I am always available for conversation either at the Church office or some other avenue. May God bless you all during this Lenten Season.

            May the road rise to meet you,
            May the wind be always at your back.
            May the sun shine warm on your face,
            The rains fall soft upon your fields.
            And until we meet again,
            May the God who loves us all hold you in the palm of His hand.

                                                             An Old Irish Blessing
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In God’s Abiding Love,
The Reverend Jeniffer Tillman, M.D.

"Ah, yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it, you can either run from it...or learn from it.” ― Rafiki

Here we are, blessed with both a new year and decade to go with it. It’s strange to think that our generation is experiencing the “New 20’s”, perhaps with less glamour and style as our predecessors but with just as much promise. This is the time when resolutions are made with the intention of follow through, and why should we make them when our intentions are noble? I'll admit that I've broken my fair share of resolutions consistently since I was old enough to understand what I was getting into. However, the one resolution that I have never made is the promise to become a better neighbor. Perhaps I’ve avoided making it because I don’t want to break this resolution as I have with so many of them in the past. Still, our God constantly makes things new, for it is written in the Book of Isaiah:
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A shoot shall come out from the stump of Jesse,
    and a branch shall grow out of his roots.
The spirit of the LORD shall rest on him,
    the spirit of wisdom and understanding,
    the spirit of counsel and might,
    the spirit of knowledge and the fear of the LORD.
His delight shall be in the fear of the LORD.

Perhaps this is the year that I should do it? With my installation just around the corner, perhaps I can lean into things, not of my own understanding, but because God compels me to do so for no other reason than grace as my guiding post.

Being a "Good Neighbor" is but one of the may fruits given to us as a means of grace. It's a long and bumpy road far less traveled than that of blissful solitude. Still, the rewards are far greater if we listen to who God is calling us to be. Jesus teaches us that many will join the path but few will continue on the journey. In the meantime, here are a few tools that I learned from my time as a Mission Developer that have been helpful in understanding the art of neighboring.

        5 Reasons Why People Might Leave Their Church Family
                                      AKA: R.R.A.D.D.
1. Relocation - Someone is unable to continue his or her services to the community because he or she has decided to move to a new location. Example: Phoebe, who lives in New York, got a better job offer in Hawaii.
2. Recuperation - Someone is unable to continue his or her services to the community because he or she wishes to retreat and recover. Example: Daryl, after years of hosting parties at his abode, decided to attend them at someone else’s house.
3. Avoidance - Someone is unable to continue his or her services to the community because he or she has withdrawn and cut off 2 Communication due to the way someone or something made them feel. Example: Starbucks stopped decorating their cups for Christmas, so now Jack buys his coffee at WaWa.
4. Dismissal - Someone is unable to continue his or her services to the community because he or she has acted in an appropriate manner, which has created an unsafe environment for others. Example: Harper was fired because she was arrested for peeing in public and a registered Sex Offender.
5. Death - Someone is unable to continue his or her services to the community because he or she has died. Example: Yoseph won the lottery and died the next day.

Sounds so dire!!! Still, God does not abandon us, even if it seems as though we have been wandering around in circles for the past 40 years.

        5 Ways to Accompany As A Church Family
                          A.K.A. M.I.V.E.S.
​1. Mutually - All of us have gifts to support God’s mission. There is no mission to, only mission with and among.
2. Inclusively - We seek to build relationships across boundaries that exclude and divide.
3. Vulnerably - Just as Jesus became vulnerable to us; we open ourselves to others.
4. Empowering - We seek to identify and correct imbalances of power, which may mean recognizing and letting go of our own.
5. Sustain-ably - To ensure local ministries last a long time, we seek to embed mission in ongoing relationships and communities. It’s a little scary, but I’m excited to see what God has envisioned for our future together. Let’s do this!

In God's Abiding Love,
​
Pastor Jeniffer Tillman, MD

Advent is one of my favorite times of the Church Year, which is helpful given my odium for bitterly cold weather. It's during this period of waiting that I witness the most generosity and warmth amidst the chaos of holiday cheer. I am especially fascinated to see the various traditions that families share when they come together. I still don't get why some will put a pickle in the tree while others buy fruitcake that no one wants to eat, but if it brings people joy, then I won't judge it. Traditions keep us grounded as a community. Theologically speaking, traditions are a doctrine believed to have divine authority though not in Scriptures. We Christians believe that they are derived from the oral teachings of Jesus and the Apostles. Our Jewish siblings believe that they are ordinances orally given to Moses from God that were not written in Torah, and our Muslim siblings believe that they are sayings or acts given to the Prophet Muhammad that were not written in the Quran. Perhaps we do not share the same traditions and beliefs as other denominations, but we are all connected through the tradition of having faith. Martin Luther writes that “Faith is not what some people think it is. Their human dream is a delusion. Because they observe that faith is not followed by good works or a better life, they fall into error, even though they speak and hear much about faith. “Faith is not enough,” they say, “You must do good works, you must be pious to be saved.”... Instead, faith is God’s work in us, that changes us and gives new birth from God. (John 1:13). It kills the Old Adam and makes us completely different people. It changes our hearts, our spirits, our thoughts and all our powers. It brings the Holy Spirit with it. Yes, it is a living, creative, active and powerful thing, this faith. Faith cannot help doing good works constantly.” In other words, faith is something that we work on over the course of a lifetime that transpire in a series of epiphanies or seeing the face of God in the dirt. Maybe your faith has been shaken and shattered, I know that mine has, but beyond my own abilities, Jesus is there to pick up the broken pieces and create something new. We Lutherans have living traditions, so that God can breathe new life into our dry bones. Whether you are celebrating the same traditions for years or are making new traditions with the people you love, do not be afraid to share the tradition of your faith. If it's important to you, then others will benefit to know about it. There are many opportunities to give here at Apostles Lutheran. I have been told that a few of you practice the art of Alternative Giving, or monetary gifts in honor of someone, at Christmas. Alternative Giving can include and is not limited to giving to the youth so that they can purchase gifts for our two Salvation Army families, or giving to LIRS, an organization that purchases gifts for children in corrective detentions. Other gifts can be given to organizations such as Bread for Life, the Free Clinic, Lutheran Family Services. If you’re in the neighborhood for something sweet, our Youth's bake sale is on December 15th. They will use the money to purchase groceries and prepare a meal for our local homeless shelter. Every-where in the world, there are people who need help. Apostles has created a monetary service apart from our budget known as the Pastor’s Discretionary Fund, aka the PDF. This separate account has been set up solely to assist people in dire times of crisis. If a fire has ravaged someone’s home before Christmas, the PDF is here to ease some of that burden. If someone requires assistance in paying for a funeral, the PDF can be used to help lighten the load. We rely on members to replenish this fund every year in order to continue this ministry to our community. If you would like to give to any of these ministries, then please contact our Treasurer, Tina Britt for further assistance.
The Holidays can be a wonderful and stressful time of year, and while seasons of feast and famine will alternate from year to year, the love of our God through Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit will never change. I pray that you have a blessed Advent and Merry Christmas. I will be writing to you from beyond the page in the coming new year.

​In God's Abiding Love,

Pastor Jeniffer Tillman, MD

Hello and Happy November!
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This is Pastor Jeniffer writing beyond the page. I’ve been pondering over what I should write to you now that I'm finally here in Gloucester. All that I can say is that I am excited for this new chapter in our lives. Together, we'll discover how God is calling us to live with and serve one another. There will be plenty of time to read over newsletter articles from me, so I'll make this brief. I am so happy to have been called as your Pastor, and yet I know that I am a stranger in this strange land that you call home. Over the next couple of months, I will hold special office hours aptly named "Meet the Pastor" as a means of getting to know you. Please sign up for a 30 minute time slot located at Apostles HQ. The Advent Season is upon us, which means that the Lord's Prayer will be changing come December 1st. One of the joys of moving anywhere is finding a place to call home. I have been overwhelmed by the sense of hospitality shown to me over these past few weeks and would like to return the favor. You are all invited to my House Warming party... once I find a house, of course. In the meantime, let us all be mindful of those who are without a safe place that they can rest their head, especially now that the weather is transitioning. Take care of each other, and I will see you soon!

In God's Abiding Love,

Pastor Jeniffer Tillman, MD

​“Speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. From him, the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.” Ephesians 4; 15-16

I have learned a lot about bodies during my 40 years in medicine. For a body to be healthy and functioning at its best, it needs all of its various organs and parts to be in place and working closely together. When parts are missing due to disease or injury, or when the various organ systems stop working together, the body suffers.

​The same can be said of the body of Christ. We are all parts of that body. We all have important functions to perform within the body of Christ and within the body of worshipers we call Apostles Lutheran. We gather together each week. We gather around God’s word. We gather at His table. We gather at the font. We are fed, and then return to the world to do God’s work. When we fail to come together as one in worship, our church body continues to function, but we are not as strong or as healthy as we could be.

Therefore, in that spirit of unity, I am reaching out to all those members of our church body who have not been able to join with us on recent Sundays. Know that you are missed. Your presence with us enhances our worship and strengthens the unity we have with the body of Christ. Come! Join with us again!

In that same spirit, your church council has made some recent decisions to help foster unity and oneness in our worship service. We have decided to continue with one combined worship service on Sunday mornings. Having 2 worship services, by definition, immediately divides us in two. We lose that sense of community and oneness, and the body suffers. God willing, there may come a point in the future when we grow so large that we are forced to divide, but we are not at that juncture yet. We are one body. Let us worship as one.

Your council has also decided to change to alcohol free wine for communion. There are members of our body, who for personal or health reasons, cannot consume alcohol. We want all of our members to be able to participate fully in our worship every Sunday. We gather as one, and we should worship as one.

Change is never easy. Coming together as one always involves some compromise on our part. But the reward is that we become stronger as a body and are therefore better able to serve our risen Lord.

As Paul said to the Corinthians, “God has put the body together, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other.” Come, let’s gather together!

Amen.

 "And they said to him,‘Inquire of God, please, that we may know whether the journey on which we are setting will succeed.’” Judges 18:5

Grace and peace to you from God our Father and from our Lord Jesus Christ! Life is a journey. Whether it is our family life or the life of a congregation, that journey is never
in a straight line, but filled with hills and valleys, curves and new adventures. The journey of Apostles Lutheran has had many twists and turns over the last 2 years. First with the retirement of Pastor Jim, then the appointment of Pastor Judy as interim pastor, then the establishment of our call committee and the search for a new pastor, and finally with the departure of Pastor Judy as she moves to a new call in Baltimore. Now I have been asked to partner with you, as a Synodically Authorized Minister, on this final stage of your journey to calling a new pastor. I am honored and humbled to have the opportunity to serve God and to serve all of you in this role. Any journey is better when you know with whom you travel. Over the past 2 years I have gotten to know ​many of you, but I feel there are many who do not know me. So a brief history of your travel partner. I was born , too many years ago, in San Francisco. My youth and college years were spent largely in California. This is where I attended medical school, and most importantly, met and married Betsy, my wife of 36 years. In 1990, looking for a new adventure we moved to rural upstate New York where I practiced Family Medicine. It was there that we raised our 2 children Chris and Katie. It is also where I received my training through our ELCA conference to become a congregational/conference deacon. This allowed me to serve as a supply minister for congregations with pastoral vacancies. It was during this time that I realized that I loved preaching and leading worship as much as I did practicing medicine Three years ago having had enough of shoveling snow and 8 month winters, we again decided on a new adventure and moved to rural coastal Virginia. We couldn’t be happier with our choice of the middle peninsula. The countryside is beautiful, the people warm and welcoming and the Chesapeake, magnificent. It is also where we found Apostles Lutheran. A small congregation of amazing people. Grounded in God’s word, alive with the Holy Spirit and incredibly energized to do God’s work in the world far beyond the walls of our sanctuary. We had found our church home! I have loved being part of this church family over the past 3 years and I look forward to working with you to continue our growth and our ministry over the next few months as we await our new full time pastor. Now you know more about me, but I would love to hear more about your story and your journey. In addition to leading worship, I will be in town on Mondays and Thursdays. I would love to have you stop by, share a cup of coffee and get to know you better. We are on this journey together. I began this letter with a question posed in Judges. With Gods help and your spirit and energy, the answer is clear!

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declared the Lord, “plans to prosper you, and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
Jeremiah 29:11

​Amen!
Pete

My Dear Church,
Sunday was the last time I would worship with you. I can still envision all of your faces, hear your laughs and your songs, experience still your prayers of blessing. You are a wonderful gift and I am so grateful that the Holy Spirit “plopped” me among you and that you made space for me. Thank you for Sunday and all the days that preceded. You have given me many gifts including the stole, and reception of Sunday. (Wow! You can cook.) Your greatest gift is your willingness to respond “Yes”. Yes, we can come, or build a room, or help someone we don’t know, or have an Epiphany fair, or give a morning a week, or serve the hungry… We can do it together with God’s help. The biggest gift you can give me is to welcome your new pastor with love and prayers. For sure, this pastor will not be like me, or Dr. Liljeberg, or Pastor Larsen, or any of the former pastors. Just as you were unique people to me, you will be unique to her/him. It is very difficult not to contrast or make snap judgments, but I know that you are able to be open and encouraging, make good food, say “yes”, sing loudly, worship faithfully, be generous. I will wear your stole into my new assignment. Your prayers and love will come with me as I meet the new people and listen to their faith stories. The Lord Jesus IS the song of our journey.
JOY to you,
Pastor Judy

Thanks, without end for all who gathered Thursdays for the study of Psalms. (Preview: Pete Liljeberg will be leading the next “study” time, plan to make it a part of your calendar). For each one of you whom God has called together to be Apostles Lutheran. For Diane Ericson who is a Eucharistic minister to some of our home bound. For the music ministry of this congregation choirs and musicians who serve even more during Lent, Holy Week and Easter bringing to us the Gospel in music. For all who gathered, planned and created the Prayground. For all of your good wishes on my 71st birthday. To all who are involved in getting ready for a new pastor: the Call Committee, the council, those involved in fixing up the building for new ministry - keep all in your prayers. For all of you - Apostles’ servants.

Time and Talent. We believe that God gives us certain abilities, grants us time and then asks us to offer these in order to praise God and love the neighbor. This sounds reasonable until it comes to the reality of the process. This means that it is important for each of us to discern what your skills are and then offer them to Apostles in order to serve God and the neighbor. Can you cook? Clean? Speak in front of people? Organize in meetings? Build? Sing? Pray? Usher? Teach? Help with children? Take minutes at meeting? Make phone calls? What is God calling you to do? Tell us by completing the time and talent sheet that you will receive.

? Do you know the name of the person who sits on the last pew on the lectern side on the aisle seat? Permanent name tags are coming. Please wear them AND then introduce yourself to someone you do not know.
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Blessings to you and JOY,
Pastor Judy